I thank the Lord for you and for your family. I trust that you are off to a great 2017!
I just want to give you a quick word of encouragement as you serve the Lord in this vital ministry. I know you are all very busy. You have families, careers, responsibilities in and outside the church, and a host of other pressures. It means a lot to me that you are willing to serve the Lord in this capacity.
Sometimes people get discouraged because they cannot do everything they want to do in a ministry. They may even feel like quitting when they start thinking of the things they have not had time to do. Granted, sometimes we need a break. There is nothing wrong with that. But quitting because you feel like you are not doing everything you want to do as a deacon may not be the answer. Let me give you two reasons why this may not be the Lord’s will for you. (By the way, no one has told me they want to quit. Just some thoughts I wanted to share with you.)
- No one can do everything.
Every night that Jesus went to bed there were still people he had yet to heal, sermons he had yet to preach, people he had yet to show God’s love, and people wanting a touch from him. However, Jesus went to bed every night knowing he had done the will of the Father for that day. A new day would bring new opportunities to serve the Father by loving people.
Remembering that Jesus could not do everything in a day has brought me great comfort. Every day I realize there are more demands of ministry than I am able to meet. I cannot do everything for everyone. Sometimes I feel guilty. Granted, there are times I could have done a better job had I been a better steward of my time. No matter how good I am in managing time, there will always be more ministry than time. My goal each day is to be faithful to the Father as best I know how. I would encourage you to remember this about Jesus, as well. Do what you can. Trust the rest to the Father.
- No one can please everyone.
It did not matter what Jesus did, there were always people who did not approve of his actions. If he healed someone on the Sabbath day, someone complained. If he reached out to sinners in love and forgiveness, someone complained. If he preached the Word of God, someone complained.
Your goal in life is not to please everyone, but to please the One. Jesus lived to do the will of God. This should be our guiding motivation. We will not stand before people at the day of judgment to give an account of our lives and ministry. We will stand before the Lord Jesus Christ. It is my prayer that we will hear him say, “Well done good and faithful servant. Enter into the joys of thy Lord.”
With these two thoughts in mind, let me encourage you to live by this motto:
I will do for one what I wish I could do for everyone.
When you feel tempted to quit the Deacon ministry because you can’t do everything, remember to just do what you can. Instead of seeing a list of 50 or 100 people that you are called to care for, see the one. Do for that one what you wish you could do for everyone. Send a card, send a text, make a phone call, or make a visit. Just do what you can each day.
Please let me know how I can pray for you, support you, and resource you. I’m so humbled to be your partner in ministry.
“Those who do well as deacons will be rewarded with respect from others and will have increased confidence in their faith in Christ Jesus.” (1 Timothy 3:13, NLT)
Your friend,
Pastor Ricky